Anyone else??

I’m the same. But also I find my partner to be unsupportive and I think that’s a big part of it. Like I’m lacking interest in sexy time because I am drowning and when I explain he just lets me drown. Also I’m just so tired from doing it all!

Im having the opposite issue. And I’m feeling like my partner can’t keep up with me 😬 I want to almost every day. Even when I’m tired.

ever since having my recent, almost 16 month old, the thought of kissing or sex is so repulsive to me! I am single though so I guess that's good in some aspect, but it worries me if I'll ever go back to having a sex drive.

Start at the basics. Spend some alone time together. Some non-sexual intimate time together maybe the sexuality and "mood" will follow. "Date" again.

Same here too. I made a post like this too few months ago. I don't feel anything. I could go weeks without thinking of even kissing let alone sex. The feeling is not just there. But if you've got a supportive partner who at least helps with intimacy, you should be fine

You still need to date your partner after kids. Go out to somewhere adult, have drinks dinner maybe some dancing, dress sexy, be you be romantic again for one night, leave the kids out of the picture and just enjoy each others’ company. Hubby loves seeing me dressed up sexy so he looks forward to our date nights and admittedly so do I- seeing him in a tux, looking sexy smelling sexy, different from his every day casual attire (and me) and a huge turn on to see him like that most times I jump him before we even leave the house that’s only if we’re not running late LOL. It’s hard to feel sexy in mum mode. So I get out of mum mode- date night w him, or going out at night w my gfs he msgs me and tells me I look hot and can’t wait for me to get home etc.

How long has it been since you had your baby? I have come to my own personal conclusion that it takes women about 2 to 3 years to start feeling really normal and sexually active again (especially if you're nursing, I love breast stimulation but I wouldn't let my husband touch my breast while I was nursing at all). And of course, like all things, I'm sure plenty of people have different experiences, but I feel like this is a trend that I've noticed

Im grateful i found this post! My toddler will soon turn 3 and I have lost all interest in sex. We only do it when my husband’s been away and I missed him, we have been away only thrice in 3 years so the math is simple lol! I have gained so much weight that i dont feel sexy one of the many reasons i dont feel it.