How would you go abt incorporating yours child’s grandparent that you suspect is a narcissist & the bd is completely gone?
He’s not interested at all but his mom keeps reaching out. She has been rude the times I’ve been around her and acts entitled. At the same time I feel bad because I don’t want to be looked at as the bad person. If I keep her out.😞
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If she's rude to you, entitled and narcissistic she's probably going to have something to say either way to make you feel bad? If she can't respect you then she honestly doesn't deserve to see either of you and you shouldn't feel bad for setting boundaries because of that. If bd was in the picture I'd be saying leave it up to him to have the interactions with his mum but if he's not in the picture it doesn't mean you owe her anything if you're uncomfortable around her
People who treat you badly are not entitled to access to you and by extension your child.
Yes very true i guess I’m not sure if I should block her everywhere
I agree with the ladies in the room. However I think her bad behavior should be addressed so there’s no confusion as to why you have decided to distance yourself and restrict access. The next time she’s says or does something wrong let her know how you feel and why. That way there’s no question or guilt on your end. You gave her a shot and SHE blew it. Set your boundaries and protect yourself and your family 🫶🏼
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