Partner says I’m insecure for needing compliments… thoughts?
Hi ladies! On holiday at the moment with my partner and little one and after almost a week of getting dolled up in nice dresses and makeup and bikinis etc, I mentioned to my partner that I was upset that he hasn’t said I look pretty or beautiful or sexy or even nice… I’m a STAHM that lives in dirty pyjamas and unwashed hair. I’ve gone all out with making an effort with my appearance everyday out here and not only was I upset by the lack of recognition, but also his response. I’m starting to doubt myself, is he right? Am I insecure for wanting compliments?
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No not insecure, who doesn’t want to hear they look nice when they’ve made an effort! He should WANT to pay you compliments to build you up and let you know how he sees you. And for him to not understand and take it on board is a red flag
Trash response from him. It doesn’t even matter why you’re asking. You want your partner to notice you. A compliment would have taken less words/time than a criticism, and everyone would be happier.
Maybe explain it is your love language for words of affirmation?
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What an ass 😭 I’m so sorry that was his response to you trying to communicate your needs with him. Wanting to feel appreciated, recognized, and desired by your partner does NOT make you insecure. It makes you HUMAN!