Sex

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we have a 6.5 month old, so we got pregnant very very early on. In the early days we saw each other 2-3 times a week and would have sex every single time and he would mostly always initiate and it would be sooo sexy and spicy , he’s always always go down on me before hand and we even had sex to the fifty shades of grey soundtrack.. z Anyway, we got further into the relationship and that just completely fizzlled out, while i was pregnant we did have sex at LEAST twice a week but he stopped going down on me as it ‘freaked’ him out.. (he only lasts 2 seconds every time) When my little girl was born and i couldn’t have sex, he was sooo eager to have sex again to the point where he wanted bjs all the time, and then all of a sudden when i’m ready, he’s not fussed about it. I mentioned spicing it up to him the other day and he just seems so uncomfortable when i bring up sex, i ALWAYS initiate it by asking if we can have sex later, he always says yes but sometimes we just don’t… i understand everyone doesn’t have a high sex drive but he not blames it on a non existent sex drive but in the beginning he loved it? Is he going off me?😭 he only seems horny when he wakes up at 1am but we’re both too tired to do it.. or he’s only up for it if i give him a BJ last night we had sex after i gave him a bj so he could last longer, he just seemed like he wasn’t enjoying it and just kept moaning at the fact he was knackered from missionary.. i don’t know what to do girls
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Was he there when you gave birth? Some men get funny about seeing your bits after the baby has come out - my friends boyfriend us like this x

@Cassie yes but he didn’t see anything and i ended up having a c section anyway! xx

Sounds like he’s gotten very lazy and selfish. I wouldn’t be giving no bj when he’s not going down on me also

Oh okay. I’d say talk about how you feel. If he truly cares he’ll listen xx

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