@Sharon am having such a bad time with my partner as well with the verbal abuse, but my partner doesn’t hit me he never ever has and he would never, my son has done the hitting for a while now
I would start counseling for him ASAP is there anyone new in your sons life or any new activities that could be triggering this aggression
@Stephani noone new in his life, he finds it hard to make friends, he is only like this with me
I think your partner is setting a terrible example for his son and it will get worse if you allow it. I think you should leave your partner and move in with a family member so you are not alone with your child and he can have another role model who is not abusive towards you. I also think you and your child's should both begin counseling immediately. I know it's easier said than done, but if you want to save your relationship with your child and keep him from becoming an abuser as an adult you will need to start making some hard choices very soon. ❤️
@Bonny yea I get what you mean, when my son comes out with words am like a don’t even say they kind of words, he is just getting to the point I feel really bad anxiety collecting him from school, my family doesn’t even help as much with him and I feel like the situation gets worse when am alone with him 🙈
How old is your son? Sounds like you need to protect yourself. Does his dad know this? Surely you both need to work on this together, not only for your protection but his as well. Do you have anyone that can come over tomorrow?