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Transparency about everything. I asked questions and wanted to know everything from start to finish. He was open and honest. There’s moments I had triggers and flashbacks so I would communicate with him and he gives me the reassurance. I also had our second baby 5 months ago and the affair happened a little over a year ago.
@s a r a 🥀 we had just found out we were pregnant with our second when I found out about the affair.
@Shay I’ve been wanting a second for the longest and our oldest is now 5. After the affair is when he decided he was ready to have another. The affair was November/December 2022 to March/April 2023.
Absolute transparency regarding the infidelity. Proof of blocking the other person on every avenue and removing themselves from being near the person depending on how they met/knew the person. Transparency on where they are/who with etc until trust can start to be regained. Put effort into the relationship and showing you their love (however that is for you and how you want to be shown love).
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Therapy. And complete transparency. He has to openly listen and answer without being combative or defensive. And the rest is up to you. You have to believe that you can overcome it without bringing it up every time you get upset. Get it all out your system and then don’t look back. Things can be triggering, that’s when you open up and tell them how you feel. Even if he doesn’t think it’s anything, I have my husband mention it to me just in case I may feel some type of way. Because if I find out on my own, that’s adding damage. I made him see things from my point of view.