Husband was rude af

I think he takes out his frustration with not being able to see his daughter out on me . He refuses to stand up for himself when it comes to financial matters or custody . So then he tries to tell me that I don’t contribute enough to the household . With the exception of his child support I pay more than half of the household expenses . Yea I get that’s fair based on our income AND we also have a child together . Ok whatever right ? He lately has been saying how the house is a mess and I should stop half assing cleaning because I should be a better house wife . Excuse me ? Tf ? I didn’t appreciate that so I said if we’re gonna play old school roles he can pay ALL the bills and I’ll take care of the household and take care of the kids . Since I do that anyways plus work full time and make more money . I said oh wait you can’t afford to take care of your eldest child and yourself . So technically you want a husband and a wife since you want me to provide and nurture . Yea I’m an AH for saying that but don’t come at me then expect me to sit there and take it 🫠 did I go too far ?

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You didn’t go too far. He needs to check himself!

I think he went too far first. It would be one thing if you were a SAHM but you arent. You work full time and financially support both of you for the most part it sounds like. Like theres no reason for him to verbally attack you like that just bc he's frustrated bc he had a daughter with someone who he's no longer with and doesn't see her often. Unfortunately that happens but it's not YOUR fault. 😤 Oof let my husband talk to me like that and I'd go further than what you did.

@Brianna it’s RUDE. We have a child together and I cover the majority of her expenses . When step daughter is here I take her out and do things or take her shopping . It’s wild that he had the audacity to make it seem like it’s my issue he can’t put his foot down with his bm . I don’t deserve that . I work 50+ hours a week . I know wtf I bring to the table . I told him I wasn’t afraid to be bm #2 because at least I’d have to only worry about our daughter and myself instead of a family of 4 where I’m not appreciated

Yeah, I'd tell him that he better fix himself before he loses another child. Fit throwing is NOT going bring his daughter to him and especially towards you, what is he a child? Like nah. He needs to chill, if he cant stand up for his rights with the BM then he just needs to be grateful of the time he gets with his daughter. Thats what I told my husband. That he's the one that signed the agreement to let her move out of state, now he needs to just enjoy whatever little time he agreed to have with them when we do get them. 💁🏼‍♀️

@Brianna exactly . And I told him if he has an issue with his custody or financial agreement he’s fighting with the wrong person

He sounds like someone headed towards a second ex wife. It's not your fault, some men are too stupid to learn. 😕

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