Feeling judged and abandoned

This is my second pregnancy. With my first I felt really supported by the groups on this app but this time around I feel judged and like there's no support from mamas to be. I get this is my second go so I'm in a slightly different boat to some but I'm so much more anxious this time and was looking for support and not ridicule and judgement. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else is feeling the same?
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I have seen quite a few negative responses on people’s posts, it does make me upset and I want to tell them they could say stuff a bit nicer but I know they’d just argue back. I just feel bad because I know it’s just anxious mums looking for support wether it’s their 1st or their 5th ♥️♥️♥️

@Imi it really gets to me. I didn't have a connection with my first when I was pregnant with her and I had so many other health issues too that I have more anxieties around this pregnancy. Seeing people's not so helpful responses or even arguments with people trying to be helpful makes me apprehensive about asking for helps, guidance or support for December mamas to be. I understand the anxiety around 1st trimester. But honestly it doesn't help lashing out at other people

Sorry to hear that, it’s a tough time regardless of how many times you’ve been through

I agree, I’ve seen a lot of posts about how people are worried about losing their babies and the replies are not helpful at all. Yes we can’t control what’s going to happen but it doesn’t hurt to give a little positivity or hope x

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