why is it weird to poop in front of your husband/SO??

just saw a post on instagram about this and all the comments were saying they absolutely won’t do it. i don’t get it lol maybe we’re too comfortable ? i mean he saw me poop during labor but that wasn’t the first time 🤣

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It’s very embarrassing for me. Anything in the bathroom, is my privacy. There can be one place I can have my alone time.

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I think a little mystery goes a long way in keeping the spark alive. Part of that is acknowledging no matter how well you know someone, you never really know them, and the other part is basic privacy.

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We’d both be comfortable with it but don’t because who wants to smell that. We will stay outside of the room but still talk to them.

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Me and my husband invade eachothers privacy lmao

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No. Just no. Lol. I’m not embarrassed I don’t have any insecurities. But he knows I’m pooping or I’ll know he’s pooping but the doors locked. We have 3 toilets ffs. Go use one of those 😂 Never seen him poop and he’s never seen me poop. What happens in the toilet stays in the toilet lmao. Don’t disturb my me time 😵‍💫

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After 20 years, there’s no embarrassment 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve wiped in front of him and I’ve even changed pads and tampons with him around. Idgaf 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

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glad to know i’m not the only one 😅

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very fair lol

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sometimes i kick him out just cause i want privacy, but it’s not a grossed out or embarrassed thing for me

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It’s been 15 years and 3 kids. We don’t purposely poop in front of each other but we usually give each other privacy. Sometimes I will crack the door and stare at him until he notices… because I’m a weirdo. 🫣

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Never alone, love! Never alone. Always remember that!

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My husband doesn't want me in there when he's pooping (fair bc I don't want to be in there either LOL) but I will walk into the bathroom and tell him I need to poop even if hes in there, then just start going whether he leaves or not 🫠

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