My ex keeps reaching out to me. I’m engaged and have a baby with someone else. We “dated” for like 5-6 months. He texted me from 2 different numbers now then gets mad and rude when I tell him I’m not interested in him anymore.

Send him a picture of the ring 💍

Get your man to reply lol

Is your SM not on private? I can’t add anyone and no one can follow me until I accept them. Block him, and then put your socials on private. That way you have to confirm their add in the first place.

@Kellie same! Mine are locked down. I can't even be searched, and don't have message buttons.

bc the mf owes me like 900$

that would just not end well 🙃 ex is a gang member

on Facebook it went to my message requests

Ignore it then. Don’t give him the satisfaction. Pretend you didn’t see it. Leave it on message request forever. Or block him.

Girl 900 dollars is not worth entertaining an ex while you’re married.

yeah especially once you have a kid you want your socials closed down so randoms can't see pictures (in my opinion anyway)

It’s because you are replying he thinks he has a chance

He’s never giving you that $900 so you can forget about that.

Block him everywhere

Take screenshots of the dates and time you blocked him as he can try manipulating your fiancé.

Or tell your fiancé you started getting messages and your blocking this person

He owes you 900 dollars 😂 girl forget the money and forget him. Moral of the story don’t lend what you can’t afford to Miss.

$900 is not worth it. I would block and file a report for harrassement (just to have that paper trail). Stop engaging and ghost him. Do not give him the time of day.

Have you thought about looking into small claims court?

it is when you can barely pay bills🤷🏼‍♀️

I haven’t spoken to him since last year in April and he keeps trying lol but go off sis

ever think that maybe at the time 3 years ago I could afford to and since having a kid things changed. Maybe try not to be so judgmental 🫶🏼

it is when you can barely pay bills

Sorry if it came across that way, life and circumstances do change. It’s just not worth your peace. I don’t know him but if he was going to pay it back.. he would have done. 3 years is a long time.

Yeh I was really going off lol

Don't risk blowing up your current relationship. If it were your fiance dealing with this situation you know how you would feel and what youd want him to do.

easy to say when you’re not in my shoes

id be fine with it if he was trying to get that much money back

Not sure what you were hoping to get from this poll, then...

Money?

His behavior sounds dangerous and obessive to me. And for me, you can't put a price tag on saftey.

He's called from 2 seperate numbers and found you on social media. Just seems obessive. Idk you know him better but also if he was going to pay you back he would have already or been an adult about it. He's uses the money as leverage to talk to you. Idk just bad feels feom the situation you are describing.

He’s not going to pay you that $900 back. Any person with common sense could have guessed as much…

if you read other comments I explained he owes me money lmao

and you’re being rude why? Does it make you feel better about yourself?

Hes not going to give you any money back, hes just trying to get some cat. Is money worth your relationship?

I think for some women the excitement of an ex keeps them engaged. Especially when he has a gang history or a violent history I know women who get a thrill from being wanted by and fking a thug. The women I know will always throw thier good relationships down the toilet when mr thug comes back in to thier inbox. Then they act surprised, hurt, and betrayed when thier good man dips on them. Like they didnt see it comming or he was in the wrong for respecting him self enough to leave. Im not saying thats OP, but I have seen it happen time and time again. Some women just love the thrill and the ups and downs and find excuses to ride that roller coaster. Money owed is actually a common reasoning with the women I know like that because thug boyfriends are always borrowing money. I have a friend who bought her thug bf a whole set of veneers, 12k and really thought he was gonna pay her back. Obviously he left her almost immediately.

Right? It really used to mess me up because I care about these women, they are my friends. It would make me sick, i would think if I could only make her see it etc. Then i had to learn that they need to want to see it and want help on thier own.

Right? And knowing some men, he may be wanting to ask for more money.

If you want to take that as rude that’s on you 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m just being honest. Makes no difference to me.

I’d make it clear that since you have history you don’t feel comfortable communicating since you are in a nee relationship, and ask them to stop reaching out. He is still makes attempts then I’d just block

DONT ENGAGE. IGNORE! lol make sure you let your fiance know what’s going on as well.

yeah obviously you have no problem being rude 😂. You should check that

Or maybe you’re overly sensitive and not strong enough to handle the truth. Could be that. Probably is that…

And before you block him tell your fiancé and show them the message.

yikes girl. Who hurt you and turned you into a monster 😳

Maybe he's pregnant...lol jk...block him and tell your husband what's going on

Before I got married I was in an abusive relationship. He literally used and abused me physically financially. Every way you can think of. Order of protection and all involved after. Literally the day the order expired, he reached out via email and instagram. I blocked him via email. I let my husband read both messages. I then blocked him on ig. My husband reached out to him through his own page on ig. I never heard from the loser again. Money isn’t worth my mental health and I’ve always felt so protected with my husband so I didn’t care what the loser said or had to say. Whatever you choose just don’t get dragged into his mess again. You’re worth more and so is your current relationship especially if he’s a good man! Money comes and goes. That’s just life.

Don’t think you’re ever gonna see that money… 🥲but with your responses, it doesn’t seem like you’re gonna do what you need to do to make him go away. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤐

🤣 how does anything I said equal to me being hurt? 🤡 unlike you, I’m very happy and know how to take responsibility for my actions and set up healthy boundaries. Maybe one day when you learn how to, you can be happy as well ☺️ I’m not the one on here making ridiculous posts that show how naive you are.

But sure, I’m a monster for saying you aren’t getting the money back and that you’re clearly overly sensitive 🤣 thanks for proving my point.