Nothing in Common
My husband and I have nothing in common. 12 years together. 3 kids.
The only quality time we spend together is if one of us wants sex. (A nice 10- 20 minutes together maximum)
I can beg for quality time together and the response is alway "what do you want to do?!" He doesn't want to watch a show or go on a date because it boring. He just wants to game and craft/hobby.
In the past 12 years I have tried doing his hobbies in order to be around him. We literally have nothing in common.
The kids go to bed, he immediately retreats to his game room. He'll come to bed in 3 or 4 hours.
Im just going to sit here. Wishing he wanted to be around me. All I see are my kids all day. Im desperate to feel human and loved or to just have adult conversation.
Its been like this for five or more years.I can't feel like this forever.
Just venting.
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Literally me and my situation. I got pressured into marrying somebody who put on a fake identity and now we have a kid together. Some men just arent right. If i can guve you this coconut and make coconut water the least you can do is reciprocate the energy somewhere that matters to me in the relationship. Just suck all around. Just wasting time honestly. I just started to realize i could get sek anywhere else so at this point what was his worth.
definitely feel like Im wasting time. Married my high school sweetheart. Like I didnt even go out and live life. Like 10+ years gone. Wish I had the guts for divorce.
The sex point is true.. hmm
Dont go get the sek somewhere just because its something you can get anywhere. Stick to your morals girly , you wanna leave his lame ass with pride and dignity. I had my first son with my high school sweetheart and we were together 6 years. I know what its like to not wanna leave someone who was your best friend for so long. Growing apart is natural. What makes it wrong is to string someone a long by giving them bare minimum. But even from what im hearing hes not even capable of the minimum. You are worth more you literally can create tiny human. Stand up!!!
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