Do you get mad at your SO looking at other women?
Do you get mad if you catch your husband/boyfriend checking out other women?
For me and mine we’ve always had a very open view on the matter. If he thinks someone is good looking/has a nice bum etc. he’ll let me know and I the same if I think a guy is good looking. We each feel that it only becomes a problem when we start to hide things from each other rather than being open. We even discuss it amongst ourselves and I’ll be like “hey she has a great ass” for us to look at together (I’m straight btw😂).
I could never get angry at him looking at another woman as I also look at men. It’s not cheating! It’s not being unfaithful! It’s basic human nature to find others attractive even while in loving, committed relationships. Just because you’re with someone, married to someone, devoted your life to them and ok have a family together it doesn’t mean you’ll never find another person attractive ever again in your life and that’s completely ok!
I understand not everyone feels this way or has the same dynamics so be interesting to hear what other have to say ☺️
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When you say looking do you mean like a glance or like prolonged looking?
yeah like a general glance, you know, not sat in a restaurant staring longingly at someone at another table 😅
It’s normal to create judgements of people on first glance since that’s how our brains process information so that wouldnt bother me. If he was ogling tho that’d bother me. I’ve never noticed him looking at all tho tbh
well yes I suppose you’re right, or we’d all be walking around with our eyes closed.
I feel like it would only turn into an issue if the looking were to then be acted on, but a little window shopping with no intent to buy never hurt anyone
Yeah no don’t get mad. I don’t expect him to walk around blind- people walk. We see people. She might be gorgeous she might be pretty she might be wearing a pretty dress she might have a nice bum. Or he might be topless on the beach and have amazing abs. Have a glance and move on shall we. He’s also glaring off other men who’s gawking at me, so there’s that. Lol. I’ve seen women glare off their partners coz they double glanced at me 😂 so that’s why I don’t mind him looking at others just don’t stare and don’t make it creepy and don’t it to the point where she notices, coz that’s awkward. Let’s people watch, and enjoy our day. I’ve dragged him to Latin festivals where girls are in their full Latin costume w feathers and a G string showing their butts dancing. Have a watch of their dance appreciate their nice bodies, and we move on. Coz I’m hungry 😂
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