I asked my bd for money to help with school uniform. His reply was “ is it only when I send money you’re gonna let me see my son”!
I’m SO confused cause he has only sent money once this yr so far and I had to basically beg for it!
He made a choice to move to a whole another country & start a whole another family while I’m doing everything on my own up here.
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Id ignore and ask for the uniform money again ... sorry but that is not the convo i popped up to have.🤷🏽♀️
That’s exactly what I did 😂😂

But if he’s in another country how are you the one keeping him away from his kid? Pathetic, just send the money mate, it’s for your child should be the least you can do.
cause I set boundaries so he can’t call whenever he wants anymore and he hates that.
I’m not the one benefiting from the money 😂😂

I’d never send my kid out the country to a parent I can’t trust. He’s weird if he at all is expecting you to.

Hey message me if you want to lovely I’ve gone through the same stuff here if u wanna talk x
Update, this man has not spent any money 😂😂 I’ve brought everything myself once again

Just stop asking them it’s gonna have a good impact on your mental health. Why ask if you know the answer is no most of the times, I’ve learnt to find a new man that can help me instead of focusing to get help from the previous ones. They don’t want to be fathers atleast find a man that wants to. That’s all you can do from here on out