Like if you preferred he trim or shave his pubes, but he wanted to keep his full bush. Or if you love the bush, but he preferred to shave it. Would you expect him to do what you prefer or would you not mind him doing what he wants? If you can't relate/aren't particular, what would you expect in this hypothetical situation where you guys have opposite preferences?
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He has to walk around in his body 24/7 so what he wants is the most important. If he asked you to visit his Netherlands often then he should be willing to trim so you can be more comfortable on your trips, they might become more frequent if he is more accommodating.

I personally am more giving when my husband has it accustomed to my preference but at the end of the day it’s his body. And the same goes for him to me. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a preference.

His body. He can do whatever he wants. I literally could not care less what he wants me to do in terms of body hair. I’m not shaving and if he doesn’t like it. He knows where the door is.