My husband was acting weird so I checked his phone, he was talking to about 6 women. He was texting them and they were NOT texting back. When I confronted him about it he told me they were Lyft riders, he was a driver. Now I think he was a creepy driver hitting on women and they would give him their number just to get him to leave them alone. I also saw a message where a woman said she would complain to Lyft because he wouldn't leave her house. Does this mean I'm married to a creepy man ? I never thought that until I found these messages. He was terminated from Lyft and Uber he told me it was because he was sleeping while driving. But I don't know and now I wonder if its because of his behavior with women riders.
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From what u have said alone it sounds like harassment š„²

Whoa. Heās a predator

Iām wondering if people are saying āyes and yesā meaning like extra yes instead of saying yes to both questions

Absolute predator

Heās a creep

Your husband sounds like a predator and potential rapist, assuming he hasnāt done so in the past.
100% heās lying about the reason why he was fired.
Have you checked with your local police whether heās on any sex offenders list?

Yikes, that certainly suggests a pattern of predatory behaviour. So sorry

Not cool š¬
Especially the woman whose house he wouldnāt leave so she threatened to complain to Lyft. Thatās insane. I wouldnāt be able to look at him the same, Iād be uncomfortable and of course you are not wrong to not want to have sex with him. Who would after finding this out š¤¦š½āāļø Iām sorry!!

He probably got fired because of those women reporting him. Men like him are the reason Iāll never use Lyft again.

If he wasnāt leaving the womenās house she 100% reported him and thatās his fault not hers. Your husband is a creep.

Based on this situation, yes - your husband is creepy, no - youāre not wrong for not wanting to have sex with him.
Iām sorry youāre going through this.

Yeah something is off. Keep your guard up. I know someone who was married to a man like this. It didnāt end well. She refused to acknowledge that he was an actual predator until it all came crashing down on her. He was a mail man. Might I also add, my understanding is people like this, whether they develop those habits over time or weāre like that before tend to be in jobs where they can āpreyā on women/people easily.

Red flags if I've ever seen any. Try and gather as much information as possible about the situation and honestly if I were you I'd start preparing an exit strategy from this relationahip in the meantime just in case.

Meant to vote yes heās a creep and no youāre not wrong for not wanting sex with him. Personally I wouldnāt even want to be in the same room. Do you notice any odd behavior from him towards women in your everyday life with him?

100% I accidentally clicked yes and yes but I meant yes and no!

š£ļøAnd the lie detector did determine yes, he is indeed a predator
Girl please run šØš„

this was me! I meant to answer yes and no to the question. But answered yes and yes as an extra yes to the first one

I meant to say yes and no but ur husband is a predator and a creep

Run!!!

wtf?! Thatās terrifying. Wouldnāt leave her home?! Uh. Yes. Heās a creep. He has to have said more, or you have to have said more. Like what?
Not only is he attempting to cheat on you, heās harassing and scaring other women to do it. š³

My husband drives for uber and Lyft. He got 1 warning cuz a customer said he was ādrunkā he wasnāt it was cause he had been working 15+ hrs that day and was super tired. It was his last ride. When he got a notice about it it came through the app and he had an email. U could probably check his email it might be there. Your husband sounds like a predator and honestly itās all sus. My husband was able to apeal the warning he had received and offered to take a drug test. He doesnāt smoke, drink or do anything bad. If I were u i honestly would look into divorce cause with that type of behavior nope nope nope. Also I would check the sex offender list and maybe a background check if u havenāt done this yet. It could make your decision to leave easier if thereās founded evidence.

I said yes and yes. Iām not sure if i clicked the wrong button. Yes heās a creep and yes he got fired due to his behavior

Crap, I meant yes and no. Creepy yes, no not wrong to not want to sleep with him! Iād be so pissed if my husband were doing this

I think everyone is having issues with the vote I accidentally clicked no, but meant to click yes he's a creep and no you're not wrong. I would be extremely angry and I'd make him show me the conversation/emails from Uber. But it's very inappropriate for him to be texting his riders or any other women for that matter!!

Your probably just so used to him you donāt see it other people most likely will see it

š© and neon flashing lights. Run itās so creepy.

Oh so he acts normal until heās alone with women he feels he can intimidate & scare thatās multiple women heās done it too I think how he appears doesnāt really matter as most serial killers & rapists have wifeās & kids at home itās a very scary world we live in

Now that itās mentioned Im getting double life serial killer movie vibes now.
And I donāt even watch those kind of things!

Meant to click yes and no! Ummmm this is sooo concerning.

Omg, Iām sorry. I meant to click on yes and no. Heās def a creep.

He's a creep all right and cheating..

Yes heās a creep and no youāre not wrong. Iām honestly scared for you and would report him to the police and run far away from him

......... your husband is a predator. He's not just creepy. He bothers his Lyft passengers until he gets their phone #s... why does he need their #s when he is married!? and then harasses them after he gets it. Who does that? Then he refused to leave a woman's home?! The fear that woman must have knowing he knows where she lives and he has her number and now anytime she gets in an uber and it is a male driver she is going to be extra scared. He wasn't terminated for falling asleep while driving... which is a whole other fucking issue. He was terminated because he wasn't a safe driver for women to be in the car alone with.
I'm not having sex with that pathetic shit. I'd be planning my escape from little potential Ted Bundy.

I meant to say yes & no. Heās not creepy. Heās a predator. I would hire a private detective to see what his background is. Iād even google his name . Who knows maybe you can find something he was charged with.

exactly what you said!!

I also meant to click yes and no. Yes heās a creep and no your not wrong

Creepy as hell, you should not feel pressured to have sex with this man, you should be getting tf away from him for your own safety and sanity