my bd is lurking on my private social media accts
Dude I don’t even know how lol, but he is telling me things in texts that I’ve posted on my stories. I really have nothing to hide but it just feels like another layer of control that he’s doing. I don’t even know what to think. I went and deleted all the random accts that followed me and also went and unblocked to eee if one of my followers were also following him- nothing. Idk how he’s doing it but it just really feels like an invasion of privacy, and it’s like he just wants to use anything against me.
If I don’t post anymore or delete my acct I l give him power, if I do post he continues lurking. How do I even deal with this situation!!
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He could be posing as someone you know or he could have a flying monkey (friend who is relaying info back to him)
When you post on your stories you can choose specifically who to post to, who can see it, or omit specific people so when I go out at night dressed up nice or w my gfs a bit wild lol and I post I choose to omit my daughters nephew and nieces from seeing it so I click their names NOT to see my specific stories. You can do that, only pick a handful of people who are close pick them as your favs and only they can see your story when you post so everyone else doesn’t. You can do it either way. Pick people, or omit certain people.
I would also suggest checking under manage my devices incase he’s logged in to your account from before. And delete all devices other than your own.
Honestly I’m just really done with the control. I hate it so much. And I don’t understand why he feels like he needs to stoop to this level. I don’t even want to post anymore bc now im conscious that if I even post a song or something he’s gonna see it and bc of how his brain works he’s going to find some meaning behind it lmao. I’m just so done. I want my life AWAYYYYYY from this man
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