I can't help but feel gender disappointment as I would love to have a girl. But at the same time I want my son to have a best friend. Any one have 2 boys 3 years apart and share positive stories?
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I have 8 month old and 3y4m old boys...I understand the disappointment but they already find each other hilarious and I'm hoping they'll love each other more as time goes on.
Thanks for sharing. That's good to know 🥰 Im happy I'm blessed to give him a sibling.

I have 2 boys, 2.5 year gap, they love each other, granted they fight between toys but that’s just a sibling thing lol.
But I see them being best friends growing up

yes i’m also going through the same. i found out last week that ill be having another boy and they will be exactly 3 years apart. Due date and birthday are 2 days apart. I was really hoping for a girl and of course everyone keeps saying that they too think it’s a girl. I feel horrible but i’m glad they’ll have one another. This is the second gender disappointment but not nearly as bad as the first time. I do however find that I got over it quicker last time. It’s really hard and you should never feel guilty. But you’ll love him so much and God always knows what you needed.