Sex problems…
So little backstory I’m 5 months pp and not even a month ago my husband started having problems keeping an erection. Sometimes he can sometimes (more than half of the time now) he can’t. He’s made it clear to me that it’s not me but I can’t help to think it is? Like I’ve lost a lot of weight I’m down to 128 so it’s not that. We started right away at 3 weeks pp and we’re doing it very often like I’d say 100 times(or more) since then. We got into working out and connected heavily so we have been non stop until last month. He won’t go to the doctor to see if it’s something health wise I’m just at a lost. And the way he takes himself away from me as well upsets me like he doesn’t touch me afterwards he just closes up and it makes the situation in my mind worse. Like why even get started with me like touching me (says he just can’t resist) if you can’t get it working right or at least be intimate in different ways. I just don’t know what to do or how to help him. Any advice? Is it too much sex?
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He probably shuts down because he’s embarrassed. This affects men’s ego - and usually has nothing to do with you. He could be stressed with a million things weighing him down and making it hard to focus. Maybe he need a vaca.
Talking it out would benefit him, but you have to show him that you will be there to understand him and be on his side. You guys are a team.
Don’t let your mind convince you it’s about you (easier said than done I know) but don’t come to him accusing it’s all on him. Be an ear for him, the support he needs.
If it’s a lack of interesting in what you’re doing is there a way you can cater to his fetishes ? So many possibilities.
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