I went to the park without a bra just a shirt and my partner said there’s kids around I should be wearing a bra.
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Was your shirt see through
(Honestly idc much either way but I feel like it might make a difference to some people)

I’ve never got on board with the not wearing a bra in just a top that it’s obvious that you’re not wearing a bra. I don’t wear a bra if I’m wearing a big hoodie or wooly jumper etc where nobody would ever know if I’m wearing a bra or not. I’ll just wear those crop double layer pj tops from primark. But if I was just wearing a t shirt or spaghetti top I would wear a bra always regardless of where I am and that’s just what I’m comfortable with

Bras aren’t mandatory ffs. They are an option. No one should be forced to wear a bra.

It all depends on what top you're wearing. Some tops you don't need one.

Was he wearing a bra? They’re just nipples and as long as nothings falling out then it doesn’t matter

I only wear bras when I'm breastfeeding (so my breast pads have something to stick to). And if I have a nursing top that has a second layer for them, I'll skip a bra too 😂
I can never get on board with people who expect to wear a bra always. It's so uncomfortable 😂

I never wear them, I don’t think it’s that deep personally.

If your boobs are small you can get away with it. If not, they look odd. And yes, some adults will be uncomfortable, starting with your husband. It is a social convention.

Depends…. 👀 was it VERY noticeable?
Many women could not wear a bra and no one notices because of the shirt they have. The shirt is not to show your boobs.

Depends, just try and be more modest about your moves and actions when going braless! I do this, and it’s not distracting if you don’t make it a whole deal!

I'm so tired of this out dated concept of wearing a bra all time and everywhere. I even find myself pushing it when clearly it should be the woman's choice.

I don’t wear bras but then again I’m part of the itty bitty tittie committee. My issue is my perky nipples, on the days where they really like to show I just adjust my hair to cover the imprint a tad.

Honestly I don’t really care what other ppl do bra wise but I’m not a fan of being able to just glance around where I’m at and can tell ppl have their nipples pierced bc they are in a tighter top and no bra but id never mention it to anybody bc its their body they should do what they want 🤷♀️

I've given up on bras since I became pregnant. If I'm just going out for a walk in the neighborhood with my husband I don't care if I'm wearing a bra. It's all about being comfortable. Pregnancy hasn't been fun for me so any level of comfort I can have I'll take. I feel like once I hopefully begin to breast feed I'll feel the same. I'm also part of the IBTC so I won't lie it helps. lol never thought I'd be happy about that til now!

I literally never wear a bra. That’s including to work.

As a breastfeeding mom with large breasts, I leak. I have to wear a bra outside the house. And unless I’m wearing a full coverage tshirt, my boobs are everywhere bra or no bra.
I totally don’t think that women should be constrained to a bra or expected to always wear one but I grew up with the mindset of ick! Put those things in their place! I think cuz my mom always was braless around the house and it’s just so noticeable and your eyes just zero in on them. It’s like I support the idea of “bralessness” but in practice, I expect others in public to wear them. I don’t know how I got there.
But if you are pregnant, do what ever the f you want. You deserve to.

Why would kids in a park be bothered about you wearing a bra or not🤷♀️ if you're comfortable that's all that matters x

Free the nipple!

No? They are just boobs

Does he think children will be scandalized by boobs being covered with 1 layer instead of 2

I think it depends like everyone is saying, if you got them flaunted out and about no bc that's kinda sexual even if you're not intending on being sexual. If you got a baggy shirt on then whatever I do it too. People can see boobs it's just how are they presented which might seem stupid but I tell my husband the same thing about his privates. Same about butts and bellies. Children do pick up on things like associations and I hate how sexualized everything is and people are like well that's your problem. Um no it's a societal issue and not gonna change overnight bc you want to be sexy and empowered or whatever. Sorry rant over lol 😂 bottom line you're probably fine

I think you should tell him to wear a bra as he’s also in a park and there’s kids around🤷🏻♀️

Basically the only time I wear a bra is when the bra is the shirt lmfaooo

I havent worn a bra since High school

No and actually there was a study about bra and how it’s is bad for us to wear them. If you like your boobs to sag faster than wear a bra otherwise the study showed how people who wore bra boob sagged more than those they didn’t . Honestly I wish the US would normalize not wearing them .

girl i don’t wear bras ANYWHERE !!! men with enlarged nipples and breast don’t gotta wear bras, why should i ? i like to be as comfortable and free as possible ESPECIALLY going to a park where you’re moving around so much. my fiance lets me not wear bras, even around his family i don’t wear bras and it’s not a problem at all… seems to me he’s over sexualizing you over something that’s normal