5th miscarriage

I don’t know if anyone can help. I’ve been referred to recurrent miscarriage clinic. I had 3 miscarriages before my son who was born 16 months ago. I have had since 2 more miscarriages. All of them are between 6-7 weeks, there’s a heartbeat and then it just stops. I’m so beyond tired of this. My recent miscarriage, I had no idea it was a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, I was on low aspirin and progesterone pessaries, I’ve had full blood work done for APS which is clear. The pregnancy has now been sent for genetic testing so I am waiting on that. I just want to be pregnant so badly but I cannot take another miscarriage but I also feel like I’m wasting time by waiting. I have a uterine abnormality, it is a T shaped uterus, I also have endometriosis. I just feel stuck and I have no idea what I can do now, I feel like they will just tell me everything is normal. Clearly it isn’t. I feel like I’m just wasting time by waiting for answers I might not get and not trying in the mean time. But really how many miscarriages does one need to go through for it to be enough?

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I am so sorry, I am going through the same thing right now. My doctor has now referred me back to recurrent miscarriage clinic again after my 4th miscarriage recently, the same meds that got me through my successful pregnancy didn't work for my last one. Unfortunately I have no answers either I'm sorry, I was told everything was normal, which doesnt help me. I'm just trying to keep some hope myself. Have you started any tests yet? PM me if you like.

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Recurrent miscarriage is so difficult. I lost 3 pregnancies (2 1st trimester and 1 2nd trimester) before having my son last year. We want one more child, but I'm honestly terrified that the process is just going to repeat. My work ups were always "normal" so we never got any answers either. I do hope you get some answers and some clarity that can help you moving forward 💙

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I was on progesterone aspirin and blood thinners and I got my little boy who is 8 months now. Found out I was pregnant again a few weeks back and I had a new gp so took a while to get medical records before I could prescribed the same meds again but a week later I lost it (possibly 6 weeks) I really thought that the meds would work and my body would reset after my lo. I am just trying to tell myself I got the medication too late but I dont know if thats really the case or not but these things will drive you insane overthinking. The embryo was sent off from my miscarriage #3 but never got any results for that. I dont know what happened. I really hope you get some answers. It is hard going through all this and I am sorry for that, just try stay strong ❤️

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Endometriosis will cause multiple miscarriages, unfortunately the inflammation and immune component of it plus you’re other things can cause the pregnancy not too stick. I’m so
Sorry you’re going through this.
I had a second surgery with excision for endometriosis after recurrent miscarriage and was able to concive and carry to term, do not let your endo go untreated (by a professional surgeon that is) most of the time treating endo will help the pregnancy outcomes afterwards.

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