I have just found out I am pregnant with my second and I feel terrible for so many reasons.
The first being, my beautiful baby boy is no longer going to be my only one and his world will change. I am worried he will struggle (he is 18 months) and I am worried I won’t be able to give him the attention and love he deserves when o have a newborn.
The second being, because of the above. I feel nowhere near as happy as I felt when I found out I was pregnant with my first. I can’t stop crying really.
I am so lucky to be given another gift but I am struggling processing the changes to come.
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I completely understand you. My son is 17 months and he’s our entire world. I do worry about the affect on him and also feel sorry for baby number two that they won’t get the attention that my son got as the only child