Law Enforcement
Before I start… I do know there’s risks involved with dating a cop and I know their schedule doesn’t make for great relationships and for some reason when someone says they are attracted to them they gate their heads bit off.
Anyways… my ex was the rebellious, bad boy type who loved pushing the boundaries and has a lot on his background now. Nothing super bad but enough. I want to have a man who is on the other side of the law. A fit, handsome cop who doesn’t misuse his authority and knows how to treat a lady. I’ve met a couple during my recent interactions because of my ex but they were professional since it was a work call.
How does a plus size woman like me find someone like that in Southern Indiana?
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They have very dark sense of humor. And sometimes they can be emotional less. My husband is a cop and man I keep telling him only tell me the funny stories but sometimes it’s dark. I think it’s their way to cope with what they see because most men don’t and won’t go to therapy. So it’s fine. But we make it work and schedule wise… it’s all over the place they can get called into something or stay even longer cuz of a death or a arrest etc. so you definitely have to find time to have date nights. Our consistent of late night dates with movies and food or ice cream and we just hang out. We just now have to figure it out for when our new baby comes along. I think he might be able to take nights due to him working nights. And I’ll take day shifts. It can be a lot
don’t. a cop will abuse you and your kids. doesn’t matter how good you think he is, how respectful, how much you believe he doesn’t misuse his authority, he will. there’s no such thing as a good cop. the ones who haven’t done anything bad just haven’t done anything YET. coming from someone who grew up around many cops.
my dad was a cop, he put on a GREAT show. he was so respectful, treated my mom so well, was the type who saved cats from trees and shit, then started abusing my mom, then started abusing me and my siblings, he shot a dog at work and lied about it, among many other horrible things, and my mom’s sisters and their families all still love him (been divorced like 16 years) because he’s convinced them that he’s a great loving man who wouldn’t hurt a fly.
and all of his coworkers’ kids who i’ve known have had the same experience as me with their cop parent.
never trust a cop.
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