How long do you wait to have sex after the first date?

I’d say for sure by the third date

I don’t (didn’t) have a rule. Whenever the timing felt right. I had sex with my now husband before dating. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Unless I’m looking for a one night stand, I don’t typically sleep with a guy unless we’re TOGETHER together

When we're Married

I’m someone who will make a man wait months before having sex. I also wouldn't feel the need to let him know if or when it’ll happen. A man who can't respect that isn't worth my time. I also think lust can cloud judgment, and taking sex off the table creates space to focus on what actually matters. Sexual chemistry is great, but it’s not one of my first checkboxes. I think intimacy is something two people can grow into together but a man’s character and respect levels aren’t, they're either there or not. Plus, if he’s lacking in every other department, I’m not about to have sex with him and that’s not something you can truly assess in just a few dates. But to each their own, everyone is different with these things. That’s just my two cents xx

somewhere between 2-5 dates, if i can make it past that i don’t want you fr 🤣

I used to think like that when I was younger, but realised I was wrong, the chemistry comes with feelings, respect and when you feel comfortable with each other. A guy that go too quickly might just be really stressed because he is really into you. That doesn't mean he will do it all the time, especially the first few times.
I also realised this way of thinking was coming from past trauma.
When I did took my time(not too long neither lol), I ended up marrying the guy 🙃

He was my first boyfriend and first time so about a month. Made sure I was ready and we were an item.

Waited till I was married. I need to know that I’m loved and understood before I have sex. Also, I wanted to know what he’s like when he’s mad, how he is with his money, and how he treats other women & his friends. Sex before love would just make me feel used.

Met my husband when we were 23..... we had sex on the 2nd date or so I think. Been together for almost 17 years. I have to see what I'm working with lol