Do you know the password your husbands/wifes/ spouses phone? They know yours but never get on it.

My husband and I have been together 13 years. I have a history of going through his phone, never found anything other than some porn, we talked about it and he stopped watching and our love life has improved. He’s made a texting mistake years ago when we were bad off but hasn’t shown any signs of it happening again he doesn’t even go out anymore. Me snooping through his phone caused issues because he feels like he’s entitled to some privacy and he doesn’t go through my phone without my knowledge. Would it bother you if you didn’t have his password anymore but he still had yours? He doesn’t go through yours and he doesn’t cover up when on his phone either

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Nope. No idea. I don’t need his password. I’m not checking his phone and I would divorce him if he was going through my phone. Not because I have anything to hide. But because it’s literally none of his business.

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I know his passcode because it’s the same for everything lol but we have a very strict no looking through each others phone policy. I won’t waste my years on doing that shit again. And that was an agreement we made while dating almost 12 years ago.

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Been married 6 years and he doesnt know my password nor do I know his. We dont look through each other's phones nor care to either. I think after all these years there is a level of trust in our relationship. He once left his phone open a couple years back and of course being a woman I had to look through😅 found nothing at all other than some history search of porn. But that doesnt bother me since I also watch porn occasionally lol
I dont really think of him talking/texting other women either. I think all it takes is to plant a small seed of doubt before it turns into suspicion and jealousy which can become damaging.
I understand your husband's want of privacy. That's something every person needs to a degree regardless of being married or not. Do you have a reason for wanting his password? Has there been something that made you suspicious? If its just your thoughts eating at you, then perhaps that something to work on?

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