Twins

Girlllllllieee . You are my sign . I have twins . I go to see them soon .

I can TOTALLY relate! I’m having twins and I just found out that I’ll be having a boy and a girl. They will be my third and fourth kiddos and I’m right there with you when it comes to being nervous about how this will affect the family dynamic/older kiddos. My oldest is also a boy and I went through that same nervousness when I found out my second was going to be a girl. My first thought when we found out was “What the heck am I going to do with a girl?!” I have three younger brothers and in my head I always thought I was just going to have boys lol. BUT, the great thing is that it comes so much more naturally than you think 🥰 My little girl slotted right into our family to the point that I was hoping one of our twins would be a girl and was so excited when we found out last week! You should definitely message me and we can talk over all the rest because it’s just too much to comment lol, but just know that you aren’t alone!

Honestly it won't matter you'll feel that way regardless just have to figure YOUR way of doing things out. You'll be surprised how much the oldest really will become independent more after they are born.

Im having twins I get to go see them on Wednesday and I get my blood work done to find out what they are🤗 I already have 3 boys you will find your groove. I felt the same when I got pregnant with my 2nd but when he game my first born was so excited and happy and he wanted to help and stuff a lot it was nice. Same with my third but my 2nd son was a little hesitant at first 😂 but they all love each other and get along great they fight but they are siblings so I’m not even surprised by this

Different situation but we wait until birth to find out our baby's gender: first was a girl whom EVERYONE thought would be a boy lol and then a boy and now we have another child surprise on the way! We're just figuring it out along the way. Awhile ago my daughter started asking for a baby sister, and that's kind of what I want for her I thiiink selfishly because two of my son just sounds overwhelming to me rn (he is currently 1 and I think that's my least favorite age 🫠) but either way all we really want is a healthy baby and like I said we'll love them lots and figure the rest out as we go 🙃