Advice needed
Hey ladies,
After some advice and was thinking this would be the best community to post in.
More relationship related than anything else.
I was dating a Nigerian man, (I’m black British, and we are both in the UK) all was going well. Great connection xyz. I never met his family, but his mum went for a reading in Nigeria to check if our relationship is compatible and now the whole family is scared about our future and has decided we shouldn’t be together as that’s what the reading said.
He’s now had to choose between his family and me but seems hard broken.
Any guidance please? Is this common practice in regard to readings for compatibility?
All advice, and kind and honest comments welcome x
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Just asked my Nigerian husband, he said let him make his own conclusion. If you intervene or convince too much, that will be seen by the family as confirmation of what the reading said. If you can remain confident, and also confident that he will make the right choice, he will come to his senses. (If he doesn’t, he is also not the one for you).
It’s up to the guy. Never had a reading done and many don’t believe in it.
If he does believe in it, then it is up to him what he wants to do next.
Leave him alone. Any man who is not able to prioritize you… will never be good for you! Thank God for showing true colors and leave him be. And i bet the “reading” was just manipulation by family members.
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