TTC journey little about myself

March 4, 2026 is the day. I truly started my TTC journey. before that I never thought getting pregnant would be something I would have to work so hard for I always believe that when the time was right, it would just happen. My husband and I have been together for five years and married for almost 2 and we always imagine that one day we would simply find out we were expecting and celebrate that moment together. But as the time went on, things didn’t happen the way we thought they would they were. There were so many pregnancy test so many negatives and sometimes once that weren’t even clear enough to give me an answer, each one carried hope and each one also carried disappointment eventually, we realize that if we wanted to keep moving forward, we had to start somewhere. for me that somewhere was March 4 I’m 24 years old and over the past few years I visited several OB/GYN doctors looking for answers. I went to appointments, hoping someone would help me understand why getting pregnant seems so difficult for me. I have procedures done ask questions and search for solutions but most of the time the only advice I seem to receive was to lose weight or go on birth control instead of feeling supported, I often walked out of those appointments, feeling judged and unheard. after a while, I decided I needed to take control of my own journey. I started learning about my body tracking my cycles and researching supplements that might help me move forward. I realize that sometimes you have to advocate for yourself when you feel like no one else is listening, though everything my faith has been what keeps me going. I truly believe that God is walking beside me in this journey and that one day he will help me become the mother. I know I’m meant to be. still there are nights when the question said heavy on my heart will have her become a mom my husband, and I don’t talk about having a baby very often because it’s such an emotional subject for both of us. Sometimes I carry the weight of feeling like I can’t give him the child we both dreamed about for so long the feeling can be incredibly painful but deep down in the bottom of my heart I know they’re meant to be parents. I believe that with everything in me so this is my story my TTC journey it’s filled with hope. Faith patient in a lot of emotions and even on the hard days I hold onto the belief that one day our baby will come and every step of this journey will happen worth it. Please keep falling along and keep us in your thoughts and prayers as the months go on. I’ll continue sharing updates about each month of my journey, the highs and the lows and everything in between maybe one day I’ll be able to look back at this post while holding the baby we’ve prayed so hard for

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