I’m starting to hate men
I think I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like relationships. I think men just take everything from you. I’ve had a baby and had to co parent, that was hard but I handled it. Built a business up and tbh everything was going well. Then I met my now partner. I used to fantasise that having someone to do this life with would be so much better. I’m realising i actually don’t like it. I’m probably being ungrateful cause a lot of people have it worse but this is not enjoyable. I loved the distance I had with men. Keeping them at arm length. They actually get on my last nerve. They just take everything from you once they enter your life and I’m done with it. I have my kids, my business, home and family. Now I need to figure out telling him I never want to get married. It’s not worth it
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I think it’s probably an issue with the types of guys you’re picking and where you’re finding them. Maybe some introspection on what you want out of a partner and set your standards and don’t date anyone who doesn’t meet those standards.
If we don’t ever stop and think and have clarity of what we do want we ending up taking what we get and focusing on the things we don’t like.
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