I FEEL SO LOST
So I had my pre trial hearing yesterday
Had a new judge and he was totally on my exes attorneys side. I’ve posted a couple times in this group about why I’ve been dealing with. In my court order for visitation it says the kids can stay with me here in South Carolina for summer time. Now my ex wants the courts to change it and have me come to Nebraska for the whole summer.
Where the hell does he expect me to stay? I have no family no friends. Given the fact that I pay child support already. And he wants me to pay for hotel stays and food for 6 weeks? WTH. 🤦♀️ listen I’ve done just about everything I can to co parent and make things easier for us and most importantly for our children. And he’s doing everything he can to take them away. He’s expressed he doesn’t want them coming to SC to see me. I’ve sent him pics and videos of where I live. And the man still isn’t satisfied. I feel like I am being treated like I am a criminal. Like I am a bad mother. I’ve been doing this divorce on my own since last year. My final trial is September 28th and 29th. I just want to breakdown and cry 😭
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I’m truly sorry you’re struggling so much, Lisa. Time away from your kids is never easy.
Is there a live-in job you can take? For example, a lot of resorts have staff accommodations or a live-in nanny job. This would make cost-of living a non-issue and allow you to be closer to your kids?
Alternatively, if there’s judge agrees and it goes that way (and it may not), then you can use that time to doing everything you can to be the best mom you can be when you do reconnect with them. Personal growth, development, etc.
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