We just got our nipt testing done and we’re planning on doing a reveal but this is my third baby and I have two girls already and have a feeling this one is gonna be a girl too. Anyone else in the same boat and feeling like they are gonna have super bad gender disappointment? I’m really debating doing a gender reveal because of this but I know it would really kill my partner as this is his first baby.
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If you have any chance to have a gender disappointed please don't do a gender reveal. Just do a baby shower or something to celebrate your baby despite his gender.

I did a gender reveal with my baby shower, first baby. I knew we had a preference but we where still excited to know what it will be. After the reveal i did feel disappointed and my husband too, but seing the others reactions, the joy and sharing my feelings make me actually feel so much better about it ! I just realized how this want gonna change out big pictures and what we really wanted was a family.
I actually feel good to not denny my feelings. It’s ok to have feelings about it, and to talk about it is the best. At the end that baby is wanted no matter is gender ! Now I love my baby and we actually happy that we see it soon !!!