in

California

Is this toxic?

For a little bit of preface, I’m 30 weeks pregnant with my first child, and my partner currently lives five hours away from me working a new job. He has expressed to me that he doesn’t like living over there and has complained about the people he works with and how he doesn’t really want to be friends with them or have bonds outside of work, he then continues to go out to the bars with his coworkers and does this at least once a week usually twice. He has been driving down usually on the weekends to see me or every other week but the past two weekends he has stayed up there and spent the weekend drinking. one night getting so drunk that he was hung over at work throwing up. Is it toxic for this to upset me that he is going out. Ik this is normal thing to do especially considering I’m not up there so it’s not like he’s leaving me I just feel like it’s kind of an immature thing to be doing and I feel like he’s having a hard time with accepting this new responsibility and having to be less selfish.