Partner wants to try something new

So I’m all for trying new things in the bedroom I can be freaky. However my partner has suggested that we go to a swingers club to “explore our options”. This has made me feel a bit uncomfortable because he won’t give me a straightforward answer when I ask what he means. In the past before I was with him I’d had a threesome but it was me another girl and a guy. He knows this because the girl that was also involved is his mates new mrs and I told him when he asked. I’m not sure if he’s annoyed or wants to try it but I don’t think swingers is for me. What should I do?

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If you’re already second guessing, don’t do it. To put it simply.

I would get a straightforward answer from him on why he wants to and benefits he sees from it. If he won’t answer then immediate no. If he gives you the answer, you like it then go for it! But if you’re still doubting, don’t do it.