Another no month?

Weve been trying to get pregnant after a mc in October with no luck. (We also have an AMAZING Little boy who is 3 in June)

Im 12DPO today and did a test this morning but was negative, am I out of the game again?

I feel like giving up now, just cant keep putting myself through this any more, anyone else in the same boat? Im just so sad

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I suffered with this for a while and eventually fell pregnant 9 months later.

Only things I done different was baby aspirin from 3dpo onwards (75mg of aspirin) and acupuncture x

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I am right with you.

Took us seven cycles to get pregnant the first time, lost it at 13.5 weeks.

Took 11 months trying and 4 failed IUIs to get our beautiful son.

Took 3 months of trying to get pregnant again, lost that at 10 weeks. In November.

(We may have had a chemical on Christmas, I got two days of positives and then a period but I don’t really consider that a loss compared to my other two).

Been trying ever since, with no luck.

We know we have low sperm and my husband is on meds. But it’s like a part time job trying to constantly test for LH, Time sex every other day leading up to peak/ovulation, etc.

It is exhausting. And emotional.

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With you on this. My wee boy will be 3 in June too. We fell pregnant on the 2nd cycle of trying this time. Then had a missed miscarriage at end of December. Took my body ages to sort itself out. Finally ovulated a couple of weeks ago and was feeling all the symptoms but then my period arrived a week early. I'm just feeling so annoyed at my body just now.
But I'm hopeful my cycles are finally back to normal. I've started planning things for when my periods due so Ive got something to focus on it not pregnant. X

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Did you get all bloodwork done to make sure you and your husband are healthy?

My little one will be 3 too later this year, and we’ve been trying for a sibling since he turned 1. I even went to a fertility clinic after 5-6 months of trying with no luck. By the way, we conceived our first son without even trying in a month. So I really couldn’t understand why it was just not happening the second time. Then right before my son turned 2, i found out my thyroid hormones were all messed up. I’ve had thyroid issues but was under the impression I was monitored and treated well - but no! I had to adjust my meds and got pregnant the same month! But sadly, this ended in a miscarriage at the end of December. After that, I focused on my thyroid even more, and just found out I got pregnant again. So, in my case, I’m convinced it was my thyroid that held me back! But unfortunately there are many other potential issues. My point is, there is something holding you back too, and I hope you find it <3

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We also got pregnant straight away with our first and then again with our mc but nothing this time round six months later! All bloods works are fine, had them done last month! Sending love to you too xxxx

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