Will you be having anymore babies? Or are you done? I’ve got 2 but really thinking of a 3rd but it changes everything changes the whole dynamics and I know we would never regret the 3rd. Eeeek not sure
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After my second I would always toy with the idea of a third. I knew two was probably more logical and sensible but I liked the idea of having a third baby. I googled it, I asked on forums… everything just like you. I never truly felt settled in any one decision. As my children grew the idea became smaller and smaller and I figured we were past that stage. But I’d still always look at families with 3 children and think it was lovely and wonder what my life would have been like…
Well here I am with baby number 3! A complete surprise, not planned at all. I truly believe this was a fate thing for us. She was always meant to be.
Of course you will never regret having another baby but equally there are factors to consider. Financially it can be tough and yes it does change things eg family holidays, cars, bedroom set ups… lots of things can be more difficult with a family of 5 compared to 4.