Anyone else avoid sending pictures of their kids to their SK?
It’s definitely the petty in me, but anytime my SD asked me to send her photos of my son, her brother, I wait until she’s in our home to send them so that she’s not sitting with her BM (Bio Mom) as she receives them. Most of the time I don’t like sending them to her at all
For context, I’ve went way above and beyond for BM over the span of many years including allowing her to live with us for six months when she got diagnosed with cancer. She continued to talk shit about me and poorly about me to people we both knew and SD, showing up to my house unannounced when my husband was at home, shit talking me to my husband, and so much more. where about about a year and a half ago I set a hard boundary where we do not communicate Unless she speaks to me when we see each other in person. She has never held nor seen my son in person longer than five minutes, except for one holiday (He is 6 months). But BM loves to tell other people about my son as if she has a relationship with him or me. Can anyone else relate?
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Actually yes I can to a small degree. My SD mom continually acts like my sons are family to her (when she sees them wanting to hold them, chats with them like we are all one big family). We are not friends with her mom or step dad and it is a weird dynamic when we come together for bday parties or dance recitals once a year
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