I wanted a whole bunch like 3/4 and we have one who is 2/ almost 3 years old. He has only just started to sleep better. I am 35, partner 40 and we had fertility treatment to have him. I don't know if I can face doing it again and I feel so much older now. I'm enjoying watching him grow up but part of me feels bad that I didn't get my dream of more kids. Do we try again? Financially we are comfortable but our house is very small and IVF isn't cheap but we could do it.
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Similar situation in that we're 36 and 41, took a little while to conceive/stay pregnant and I found that stage very stressful. We've decided to stay 'one and done' and be comfortable financially and for him to have less stressed parents