At the wedding my kids will be 3.5 and 5 months old. My husband isn't very helpful and my family needs to get ready too. I need to look decent because I am a bridesmaid. Can rollers day before save time on the day? Ive never had rollers before.
I also need to bath both kids and get them ready too.
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Can you not delegate the bathing of kids to your husband, or he is really that useless?
Has the bride paid for a hair person/makeup artist on the day for the bridesmaids? Check first.
If she hasn’t and you need to do your own hair, start practising now especially if you’ve never used rollers before. You can sleep in rollers - however you need to make sure you have the right ones; the soft flexible type. Would it not be easier to try heatless curls? I’ve always had great results with them, have a look on social media for how people use them and results.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Kitsch-School-Heatless-Curling-Perfect/dp/B09S4PVZ81/ref=asc_df_B09S4PVZ81?mcid=2aa081ad34353ae79a4ddea80ce964a1&tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=697268345411&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14700771836401866622&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1006661&hvtargid=pla-1651820401380&hvocijid=14700771836401866622-B09S4PVZ81-&hvexpln=0&gad_source=1&th=1

Rollers will definitely help save some time but I suggest practicing with them beforehand. Watch a few tutorials by people with a hair length similar to yours too.
Surely your husband can dress the children after you bathe them, no? Or can kiddos be bathed the night before to save you time?

Get a new husband! Why are we tolerating this 🤬

Can’t you take one each and then bath them the day before? The 3 month old I would wait until you are completely ready.