Would you be annoyed?

Very short , but my partner takes forever in toilet . When he goes to shower it takes around 1 hr , every time, and I’m getting annoyed as today he went to shower right before baby’s sleep time and omg im annoyed that he does not understand that I need toilet as well that I need to shower as well and I don’t want to shower at midnight because he cannot finished faster, it’s okay to take your time , but come on - 1 hr every fucking day 🫠🫠🫠🫠

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Curious- what a man does for an hour in toilet? Wow

I would just get in, quite frankly 🤣🤣🤣

#1 - an hour in the bathroom for a man on the toilet without bowel issues is a flag. He's looking at things if this is the case. It looks like he is also showering for an hour. Super suspicious behavior to me, but everyone's standards are different, and I don't want to sow bad feelings for you. But I'd feel weird.
#2 - have you asserted how this is impacting you yet? Maybe saying "you're taking an hour, but I'm showering at midnight. I'd really like to be done with my routine before midnight. Any way you could do 20-30 minutes?"

How does he spend a hr in the shower ? My everything shower takes maybe a half hr tops

Bro I can easily spend an hour in the shower. 😂 tbh I’d prefer my husband showering during our son’s nap. Then I get to relax while my son naps plus I can take my bubble bath or shower & let him deal with my toddler after he wakes up.

I can easily spend 2 hours in there and no I don’t do makeup or skincare regiments or any of the “girly” stuff; it’s just relaxing to wash off the day. My husband can take an hour or two in there too. Bothers me none

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