TTC is so draining 💔

Hello guys,
So im struggling with ttc, i dont want to take a break, i want my rainbow baby. I do already have a little one through help so im thankful for them. However we had an early loss and its not happened since 😩 and im just at a loss what to try what can help us. All tests come back we are fine.
Anyone else feeling same? 🩷

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Definitely feeling the same. Been 5 years and I feel so lost and disheartened but people act like I shouldn't care because I have 1

I’m very drained as well, my period came back at 10months pp but I’m still not ovulating as I breastfeed so much day and night still.
It really puts me in a tough space because I really really want to get pregnant but also don’t want to stop my lo from nursing when he wants to. Don’t know what to do. Failed cycles now 5, this month 6th.

I feel it too! Had 8 chemicals back to back just feel like I’m at a loss at the moment and this cycle is funny!

Yeahh it’s so hard! Trying to have our final baby! It’s so difficult! Sending all the baby dust to you!

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