in

Vent About Your Husband/Boyfriend Issues

Im unsure.

My fiance said some horrendous things last night after a fight and I dont know if I can repair from it. He basically said that if it weren't for our son it would have been a lot easier to leave. I have always given him the option to leave because of how he has treated me before. After the fight he stepped out and came back telling how he hates himself for not being able to provide a better life for us and how he blames everything wrong with him on other and how he needs to get it together for us. How he loves us and he would die for us but hes so messed up that its causing us to suffer.

I get it and understand some of it but also even at our worst I had never said those words to him. I can tell he never really wanted to be a real dad. And by that I mean that he never wanted to be involved for the hard things in life. I hate it because he'll get better but then its like he never wanted to have a family.

I want to leave but I rely on his income after he told me to quit my job. I rely on him for rides to appointments because I dont drive. I really dont have a support system.