How long did everyone wait to buy necessities for their baby ?

I’m wondering is it too soon to start buying necessities for my baby ? I’m 12 weeks 6 days today. But I also don’t want to wait too late, or rely on baby shower gifts.

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Thats totally up to you I was lucky and got everything I needed at my baby shower

Buy things little by little. One thing here and there

Maybe do one big thing a month

I brought most stuff after my 20 week scan, I got a couple of bits at 17 weeks in the black Friday sales I.e next to me crib but everything else I got after 20 weeks.

8 weeks. I bought the next to me crib because it was a bargain. And then slowly began getting bits. Had everything before 28 weeks

I recommend making your registry. It's time consuming and then if you feel like buying something get it off the registry so it says purchased and someone else doesn't get it for you. Plus you get 15% off like 2 months before your due date.

It's your journey, buy as soon as you like and don't let anyone make you feel bad for 'buying early' or whatever, you do you honestly, it's an exciting time!

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In my third trimester I put the weight back on and then some, as I could eat more food, I’m now a size 20 😭.

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