What would you do if ur BD said you cant go to the gym or walk the local mountain trail unless he is there too!!
We are in the process of maybe getting back together but he’s already starting with what I can and can’t do. Going to the gym at the same time does not work with 3 children 4 and under. He goes alone but I’m not allowed too because men will look at me
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Find a new man that is controlling asf 😂
What would “ I” do? I probably wouldn’t be with a man who is that controlling. So I wouldn’t agree to getting back together with him. I’m not a people pleaser or someone who shrinks themselves to make another person feel comfortable so I would have to exit the relationship if a man wouldn’t allow me to have my independence or wanted to control my every move. It’s not healthy
I wouldn't be with someone like that. Why are you considering getting back together with this person when they're so controlling? That aside, I assume you broke up for a good reason!
To be fair if he hasn't changed in the whole 6 years you've been together I highly doubt he's going to change now.
And come again now? He can go to the gym alone but you can’t? Just because he says so? Absolutely not. A relationship is supposed to be equal not one person making rules for the other. If he’s allowed freedom, then so are you my girl.
Please don’t get back with him. He’s not changing, he’s never changing, his brain is effed up thats not healthy love
I wouldn't get back together and would do whatever tf I want....
Don’t make your kids live in an abusive household
Personally I’d be thankful that my man is protective of me! Even if it feels annoying in the moment.. we live in a pretty dark world sadly. Unless obviously he’s coming across as controlling in other ewys
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