People commenting on size of bump
In my first pregnancy I had a large bump due to polyhydromnios and it was indeed quite a big one and had pelvic girdle pain also so was unable to walk far and not allowed to swim etc. Im pregnant with my second and currently 19 weeks and my bump was visible from 10 weeks atleast and now quite pronounced. 3 individual people have commented on the size of my bump saying im massive and also they thought I was further along than I was because of the size. Then immediately started talking about someone who was further along than me and had a cute little bump but couldnt tell they were pregnant. It was just a really negative experience for me, I know they didn't mean it maliciously but I am just baffled as to why people feel like they can talk about the size of your bump. This pregnancy has been harder than the first and couldnt keep food down for 16 weeks , I work out 6 days a week and eat sensibly. I guess I just wanted to rant , im thankful for this baby and my body supporting it , its just difficult as ive always had body issues and spent the majority of my adult life trying to stay in shape. Not sure the aim of this other than to just rant into the ether about unhelpful comments on people's bodies!