Worth seeing health visitor?

My daughter will be 3 on the 12th and I have been taking her to the toilet since mid February, she doesn’t say anything when she needs the toilet and most of the time protests going even though when she sits down she’ll do a wee

No.2 are pure luck whether we get them on the toilet or not (I’m getting really sick of cleaning her pants 😭)

She’ll hold no.1s until she can’t anymore if I don’t take her

Is it work making an appointment with their health visitor to talk about it fo just wait until she gets it?

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I'd say it would be worth it as they may give advice and guidance that you've not known about

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Give ERIC a look as well, lots of good info and advice on there as well as free helpline / web chat

https://eric.org.uk

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https://www.tiktok.com/@pottytrainingwithoutp?_r=1&_t=ZN-96DajxqBIjW

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I follow her. Because my daughter tells me she needs changing after. Her brother is one. I am sick of changing double nappies lol

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