BD says he can’t watch all 3 of his children it’s too hard, he will only take the oldest and youngest (the easy ones). What do u do?

This would be his very first time with the kids alone, I’ve had them alone only for since march so not a big deal since I left him but it’s only 3 days… he also said why should he have to watch them so I can go have fun (I’ll be home he stole my ID)

I wouldn’t want to be partnered with someone who can’t watch their own kids by themselves. It’s like weaponized incompetence, men acting like they can’t take care of all the kids they created by themselves like they’re supposed to be incapable and saying “why should he have to watch them so you can go have fun?” Sounds like watching his own kids is a punishment. He would have to leave me alone this is pitiful.

I only have two (4 years and 6 months) and being alone with them for an extended period of time can be stressful and exhausting so I can't imagine being alone with three ... but thats also why I only have/want two children lol he can suck it up and do it alone here and there

You make them you take them is what I'd tell him. You take em all or you take none 🤷🏻‍♀️

I have three kids and it is a lot to take them out by myself but I still do it because they are my kids. He can suck it up and take them all out. It is mean to leave one behind.