Hi all,
Was wondering how long have you waited before starting to have sexy time again with your loved ones if already started or if you are on your second, third children?
I feel ready to start again with the whole sexy time process not only part of it (currently 4 weeks PP), I had a second degree tear, but it seems fully healed as I don’t feel any more discomfort while peeing or pooing. I also have several days when I did not bleed at all and some days where I have very little blood traces, nothing significant.
In my home country is usually advised to wait 40 days (6 weeks) until a doctor checks you out and gives you the go ahead, but wanted to see what is your take on this.
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You have a dinner plate sized wound inside your body. Where you have any blood at all your wound is not fully healed.
Your body has been through so much, give it the time and grace to heal properly. An infection really isn’t worth risking. If you aren’t on contraception also bare in mind you can be fertile and you can very easily end accidentally pregnant again x