Am i being stupid or ungrateful?
My 1st baby was a huge surprise, like found out at 25 weeks pregnant big surprise. So my baby shower and everything was rushed and not a lot of people even bothered getting me things from my registry….this time around I found out much soon thank goodness, i wanted to try redoing a baby shower this time hoping to get things I didn’t on my registry. But this time it’s like even less people are even coming to my shower….am I just being spoiled and I know, I can just buy the things off my registry myself but. That’s not my point it’s more of wanting to feel loved and supported before giving birth I guess idk wyt?
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I kinda feel the same way.. my first i got a lot of support and help but so far nothing really with this one.. i got a lot of diapers but nothing has been purchased from the registry yet... my first i already had the crib by now, and with this one I dont even have clothes
Kinda makes it feel like ppl don't care about the 2nd as much as they did with the first
For me I don’t even look or think about gifts. I would prefer no gifts for my shower but my husband made the Amazon registry again… 😅 try thinking about it this way, showing up and loving and supporting you is way more valuable than a gift. Anyone can click a button and send u a gift, it’s too easy. What matters more is taking the time out of life to be there for you! Wishing you the best 🥰
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