I have to hand over my 6 year old for 6 weeks for summers with a dad she just met - wwyd

Father was a willful deadbeat for 5 years. He gets a girlfriend, you know the drill. He lives across the country so judge gave us our final order of 1 overnight weekend each month and 6 weeks summer. Since receiving that, he’s called her zero times and seen her zero times but guess what, he’s coming on Friday to pick her up for 6 weeks although she literally does not know him.

Would you comply, knowing you had a hostile unsympathetic to best interest and safety concerns kind of judge?

Would you allow father to arrive but not physically force your child to go and say, hey, I tried

Would you file an emergency restraining order for abuse from 6 months ago knowing it’s a long shot cause not recent threats, abuse

Would you try to mind control him into not coming with some sweet submissive begging talk