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If mid-argument, your husband called you a “fucking idiot” to your face… Would you find this acceptable?

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No it’s not acceptable but also if it’s a one off and the argument was about something super heated and he apologised and acknowledged he was wrong afterwards then I’d forgive it. It’s not okay but sometimes (especially now as a parent) you’re so tired and overwhelmed and overstimulated that you say things you shouldn’t. That doesn’t make it acceptable but as long as it wasn’t a pattern of verbal abuse then yeah I’d move past it x