Social stalking your ex...

I mean isn’t it just noseyness?

Some people are just more nosey then others 🤷🏼‍♀️

It’s not cheating or wrong, it’s just nosey and a bit weird

I’d say it means there’s something you haven’t fully healed from or let go when it comes to this person. Most likely a lesson you were meant to learn from them. When you can look back at a person or think about a person and not feel anything at all or need to go looking then you’ve most likely learned the lessons they were meant to come and teach you in this life

I sometimes look up my ex. I’m normally reminded what an idiot I was. It was over 20 years ago and I have zero interest in ever talking to him. I could have him as a friend on sm however I don’t think I’d trust him on my wall. Think my oh is actually friends with his ex gf on sm but she now married with kids and they were teenagers. It’s normally promoted by a conversation with one of my oldest friend about the past.

I do this just cause I'm nosey and wanna see where people ended up 👀 not just exs but everyone I want to high school with and old family friends. Ik my partner does it too so I dont think we consider it cheating 🤣 I think it would only be cheating if you reached out to the ex or were liking all of their half naked pics would be an issue. Not necessarily cheating but definitely an issue.

I do this but because I'm so nosey. I have no feelings for them whatsoever and I couldn't care less about them but still find myself doing it. For me it's literally just like aimless scrolling but I can totally understand why a partner wouldn't like it- not even sure how I'd feel if my partner did it tbh